THE GIFT OF THE GAB

THE GIFT OF THE GAB

Are you a wonderful salesman? Do people want to listen to you? Do you really get your message across and does it lead to effective action? More often than not, you may feel, that whoever listens to you, just wants it to get it over with quickly. In order to get somebody's attention, you have to make an impression. Be clear on what you're trying to say. Don't leave people confused. As long as you believe passionately in the information you're trying to pass on, people won't get distracted easily.

But most people don't trust you, when you appear to intimidate them. That's why you should avoid aggressive behaviour. Your gift of the gab may then become more of a hindrance than a help. It's much better if you show genuine interest in what people feel. Some people are screaming for solutions to their problems. Just imagine, what someone else might be thinking. If you're unable, for whatever reason, to be supportive, remove yourself from the situation.

Sometimes things don't quite work out as expected. Honest communication is crucial. Otherwise you'll be unable to achieve anything, despite your gift of the gab. No news is not good news. No news often creates a nest of intrigue. Silence isn't always golden. Therefore, a far better approach would be to give the impression of wanting to help. That could make a huge difference, when peace seems far-fetched.

RICK SCHMULL 

FACING THE MUSIC

FACING THE MUSIC

Are you ready to accept the consequences of your actions? Do you think you really have to? The reality is, that, eventually, there is absolutely no way to play 'hide and seek' in the dark. You're going to have to come clean, no matter what you say or try to do. No ifs, ands or buts. But scores of people seem to get away with doing or saying the unthinkable, so why not you? That's because you're not alone. Never. Even your dog or cat can read your mind, let alone your loved ones.

Also, one of the hardest things in life is dealing with a traumatic loss. There is no way around it. It takes time. But you just have to be able to move on. There is no alternative. Fortunately, human nature tends to be flexible. Living your life is full of challenges, that can be overcome with a positive mindset. If you believe, that the best is yet to come, then you'll keep going, no matter what. Life is full of unexpected surprises, after all!

You must confront your fear in order to conquer it. Never be afraid. Believe in your destiny, which will protect you. Nature always looks after you. As long as your contribution is perceived as positive, you'll be allowed to go on. There are times, that you'll become unstoppable. That's when you believe in miracles!

RICK SCHMULL

LET NATURE TAKE ITS COURSE

LET NATURE TAKE ITS COURSE 

Are you ready to just give up and let nature take its course? Trying to control everything, may not be prudent from time to time, even if that makes you uncomfortable. Nobody should believe they know better all the time. Isn't it amazing, that your unwillingness to simply trust Nature could have very unwelcome consequences? 

If you think a Law of Nature is no longer binding, it is because you think it to be so. Is your private opinion really relevant? Nature will take care of itself and is often better left alone. Fear Nature instead! This fear is intended as respect and the beginning of true wisdom. 'The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing' (Socrates).

Is 'doing nothing' always the best option? Of course not. Anyone, who's been injured, has the right to treatment and recovery. Not taking responsibility for the suffering of wild animals is equally cruel. Feelings of compassion should never be ignored. Every animal, just like every human being, deserves a second chance. This is a very important part of living your life. You will be rewarded incredibly!

RICK SCHMULL

JUST KEEP GOING

JUST KEEP GOING

Make sure you're always on the move. Otherwise you may be going backwards. Never lose sight of your goal. Your goal is simply a must-have, a must reach. Failure is not an option. Therefore, you must keep going whatever it takes. Failure is just a stepping stone, before you'll be successful. Therefore, you should look forward to failure! Then you'll get closer to your breakthrough for eventual success. Remember, persistence will win every time, no matter what happens. 

Your life is a journey without a finish line. Your life never ends. Whatever the reason for living your life, you're on a mission to fulfill your specific destiny. Before you were even born, your destiny was already known to whomever is pulling the strings. You are an important link to whatever the future holds. You may not realize how crucial your role really is. But you have to pretend that you do know, because you're a genius, believe it or not. You can always rise above yourself and make it, as long as you keep going.

You were created with a specific purpose. Your life is an eternal quest for survival amidst all the challenges, that await you. Never stop counting your blessings along the way. Be grateful for every day, because you don't know, how long you've got. Life is a gift, after all. Always dream about the unthinkable. So just keep going and scream at the top of your lungs --- 'I did it!'

RICK SCHMULL

THE ONE AND ONLY

THE ONE AND ONLY

Life is short. That's why there's nearly always only one true love or one true passion in one's life. Time flies. It's all over, before you know it. But will it be returned in kind? For awhile, maybe. It's complicated. You'll never get all the answers to all your questions. Turns out, you're just a pawn, as the world turns, like everybody else. Your life can only be controlled by yourself in a very, very limited way. 

Just like there will never be someone else to take your place, no one can ever be replaced by you. Everybody is different and remains so. A miracle indeed! That's why whatever you're saying may fall on deaf ears. Nobody is actually listening to you. Why would anyone value your ideas in the first place? What makes your judgment so special? You'll be drowned out by the judgments of many others. 

Pay attention to your own body language. Are you giving too much away? You may pretend to be or to do the one and only, but it's easy to inadvertently be or do the opposite. Go with the flow. Don't let up. Trust in the future. Right, optimism does it. That's the only way to survive in uncertain times.

RICK SCHMULL

TOO BIG FOR YOUR BOOTS?

TOO BIG FOR YOUR BOOTS?

Are you behaving as if you are more important than you really are? Who knows? Maybe you've outgrown your boots and it's time for a change. It's all a matter of opinion. The reality is, that you probably don't think highly enough of your skills. You tend to underestimate yourself. That's because you use only a fraction of your abilities. You'd be amazed at what you really could do, if only you would have a relentless focus on fulfilling your passion.

The only thing in your mind should be fulfilling a certain purpose. Nothing else should give you absolute peace.  Nothing else. That simply requires total devotion to a particular cause. But that may well call for different boots! Are you ready to go shopping?

You have to make a decision to keep going, despite the setbacks. You're basically totally on your own. It takes a lot of doing, before anyone may notice you or care about you at all. That's why you should keep plugging away. Your life is nothing else but a step-by-step system to reach your destiny, which may already have been predetermined.

RICK SCHMULL

A HOLE IN ONE

A HOLE IN ONE

You deserve to be lucky once in a while. For a ball to hit from a tee to finish in the cup in a single shot, you'll need a significant amount of luck. But some golfers have accomplished this feat. Never count yourself out! Nothing in your life is impossible or improbable. Luck is the result of chance. The more you try, the luckier you get. Just keep at it and let things take their own natural course. You'll be surprised, how big your winnings are. 'The more you learn, the more you earn' (Warren Buffett). 

'But success breeds complacency. Complacency breeds failure. Only the paranoid survive' (Andy Grove). Therefore, 'nothing is permanent, except change' (Heraclitus). However, always monitor your blood pressure. Prioritize your own health above all else. Be your own best friend. Also, your life may often be better with your own Pet. Unconditional love! You'll be surprised how lucky you could get that way.

Just imagine all the things, that have already happened in your life accidentally without being planned. It's all in your mind. Always believe, that lucky things happen to you. You'll fare better than all the moaners, who are never satisfied. Don't get dragged down by failure like them. Think and behave like a very lucky person. Then everything is in place for a self-fulfilling prophecy!

RICK SCHMULL