THE GIFT OF THE GAB

THE GIFT OF THE GAB

Are you a wonderful salesman? Do people want to listen to you? Do you really get your message across and does it lead to effective action? More often than not, you may feel, that whoever listens to you, just wants it to get it over with quickly. In order to get somebody's attention, you have to make an impression. Be clear on what you're trying to say. Don't leave people confused. As long as you believe passionately in the information you're trying to pass on, people won't get distracted easily.

But most people don't trust you, when you appear to intimidate them. That's why you should avoid aggressive behaviour. Your gift of the gab may then become more of a hindrance than a help. It's much better if you show genuine interest in what people feel. Some people are screaming for solutions to their problems. Just imagine, what someone else might be thinking. If you're unable, for whatever reason, to be supportive, remove yourself from the situation.

Sometimes things don't quite work out as expected. Honest communication is crucial. Otherwise you'll be unable to achieve anything, despite your gift of the gab. No news is not good news. No news often creates a nest of intrigue. Silence isn't always golden. Therefore, a far better approach would be to give the impression of wanting to help. That could make a huge difference, when peace seems far-fetched.

RICK SCHMULL 

FACING THE MUSIC

FACING THE MUSIC

Are you ready to accept the consequences of your actions? Do you think you really have to? The reality is, that, eventually, there is absolutely no way to play 'hide and seek' in the dark. You're going to have to come clean, no matter what you say or try to do. No ifs, ands or buts. But scores of people seem to get away with doing or saying the unthinkable, so why not you? That's because you're not alone. Never. Even your dog or cat can read your mind, let alone your loved ones.

Also, one of the hardest things in life is dealing with a traumatic loss. There is no way around it. It takes time. But you just have to be able to move on. There is no alternative. Fortunately, human nature tends to be flexible. Living your life is full of challenges, that can be overcome with a positive mindset. If you believe, that the best is yet to come, then you'll keep going, no matter what. Life is full of unexpected surprises, after all!

You must confront your fear in order to conquer it. Never be afraid. Believe in your destiny, which will protect you. Nature always looks after you. As long as your contribution is perceived as positive, you'll be allowed to go on. There are times, that you'll become unstoppable. That's when you believe in miracles!

RICK SCHMULL